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My Ex-boyfriend is a crook!

Journal Entry: Sun Aug 5, 2007, 3:05 AM
  • Mood: Unhappy



:target: Translation of this text for my German friends!

First of all I am sorry to all my friends and watchers here on DA for staying out and being inactive lately! I have to deal with some serious problem in my life. Normally I don't speak too much about my private life in public but now I feel so lost and I am suffering a great deal that I cannot keep the things to myself anymore.

I had a relationship with a guy who disrespected me completely, treated me like a slave, like a inferior subject. Although he still pretends to love me he never cared for me, for my needs and wishes. If we ever came across a difficult situation he wasn’t willing to solve it or to give in. His only reactions to disagreements were apologies and nasty words. I broke up with him after he topped all spitefulness he has done to me before. He abstracted my purse including my ID card, debit card and money but lying to my face I would have lost it on the street. Only by outsmarting him I could make him admitting that he has taken my stuff and giving it back to me. You may ask how someone can do such a outrageous stupid thing. I believe he just can’t bear it not to be able to domineer over me and it was his poor primitive way to try to pressure me. But now it’s enough!

Unfortunately I live with him in the same appartment. We both have the same rights to be there but I don’t want to play his barbaric war game and so I will move out as soon as possible. I wished I could go tomorrow but I don’t know where to go yet. I hope I will find help in my circle of friends and acquaintances. I feel very exhausted and weak and I am in desperate need for some caring and encouraging words. I am also open for advice! It’s very hard for me to find back to my strength and to go this way all alone. I hope you all will understand that I have to cut down with my normal activities and creative work for now.

I thank you very much for your patience and understanding!
With love, Lily

Personal note to Anna

Dearest friend!

I am so glad to see you decided to come back to DA! I hope you won't regret it after you had to bear injustice and disregard. Welcome back to the community!
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:iconlalianna-nyrobi:
*BIG HUGE HUGS*
Good Luck Sweetie. :hug:

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2. You must learn to accept rejection, and reject acceptance.

3. "The universal aptitude for ineptitude makes any human accomplishment an incredible miracle."
:iconjenepooh:
Oh my sweet sweet Lily. :hug: I know things are going to be okay, but you really do need to find a better place to be. He's not going to get better and try to improve himself. I'll be praying that you find comfort sweetie. :hug::heart:

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...This too, shall pass...
:iconkip0130:
well i could take care of him......
he wont hit a teenager

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:iconfractaleyes:
:cuddle: It is definitely best that you get away from him as quickly as possible. I'm sorry that I can't offer more than a :hug: and prayers that you will find somewhere better soon.

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:iconloveit:
omg hon,what ever i can do,im there for ya hon,hang in there,my thought are with you:hug:s

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:iconsophquest:
:petting: I can only offer you my prayers :pray:
that God will give you the wisdom and strength
to do what you must, by getting out of this toxic relationship, as soon as you possibly can.
I know you can do it~ you've already taken the
first important step, my friend! :heart:
Much love and many hugs :rose: Sophie

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:hug:

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:icondragonwinter:
:hug: Prayers for you, sweet Lily.

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:iconpsyping:
Don't leave, and rule with iron fist. Beat him up if necessary. Eventually he'll get the hint and he'll leave, as there won't be anything to win anymore...

If you give any sign of weakness, he'll think that he won, and he'll probably get even worse.

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I'm never serious. Seriously.
:iconpeachie2:
Gotta get it dealt with quick...

There must be good folks close by who can help you deal with the creep quickly...

Sooner than later!!!

Bad stuff should not happen to great folks!!

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